Not the best idea to bring people back from the past, because they were not in vain.
Life goes on, we change. What seemed incredibly important, over time, vanished or depreciated. So is the case with people who left an indelible mark on the soul and resentment. And, apparently, it’s over and all is forgotten. As we got older, unable to forgive and let go, but these people meet again in our life’s journey. Before good-natured to say Hello, remember that you were separated and whether you want to go through it again? What people from your past should avoid?
The “best” friend
I do not advise to restore relations with former best friends. Perhaps they betrayed you, or even worse, you have taken my husband. Both, we believe, brought a lot of suffering. You have the guarantee that this person will not betray again? Not to mention the fact that she’s probably very much about you know. Let it remain in the past together with your secrets and tears, informs Rus.Media.
“Tyrants” from childhood
Many childhood is associated not only with toys and cotton candy, but unfortunately, and bullingham. A minimum of harassment, insults and ridicule, as the maximum of the beatings and persecution. Something has been forgotten, but a few moments still left scars on the heart. And if through the years you will meet a man with a past, not pretend that all is well. Of course, you can say Hello, I can not even Express what you think about it really! But the smile and discuss “happy” school life, not worth it. Let these people will be left behind. What you a daily reminder of their children’s woes?
It may be friends or acquaintances who repeatedly borrowed money and returned it. Also to them include the people with whom you have not held a business relationship business. At the time, they have not fulfilled promises, cheated or stole from you? It is possible, once again, they will want to take advantage of your kindness and honesty. Let them know that the neck you will again climb. Feel free to leave them in the past!
In childhood you were called stupid, laughed at or insulted, the child is so easy to hurt. And now this, for example, an elderly person requires attention, care and love. It could be aunts, grandparents, whatever. One conclusion. No, no need to be rude, tell him to go away and say: “And remember…” Just let the circumstances are such that you will not have time for the necessary attention and assistance.
Typically, the first love visits us in school. When everything seems so bright and important, feelings are raging at the level of the tsunami and I think that it’s for life. But years pass, love is changing on the second, and sometimes third. Of course, feelings in the 16th and feelings at age 35 don’t compare, it’s like a fire and a candle. Be careful met the first love. You run the risk of breaking anything trying to feel those great emotions, but unfortunately, often it ends in disappointment. So leave your first love for memoirs and memories.
There is nothing to look back on people that’s pretty messed up you life. Look straight ahead and you will draw peaks, but not the force of attraction to the past.