We are becoming parents just have to learn how to build a healthy relationship with your child.
What to tell the child when he provodnikova not bad at all not criticize the child and criticize him for nothing, writes WomanEL. Try to apply these 3 simple rules in situations when your child is up to mischief or wrong.
Be precise in the epithets
Slob! Liar! Slacker! Familiar? Used these words in dealing with a child? Now forget these words. The fact that you are older doesn’t mean you can use derogatory epithets for growing a little person this would work in return: he will take note that this is exactly what defines it. And subsequently to model this form of behaviour.
Criticize with love
Always better to scold than to lash out with insults and accusations.
Let the child understand that despite the fact that he is categorically wrong — you still love.
Explain the problem and together think of solutions.
If your child lied about assessments, or took something without asking — please explain why to behave properly. Lucidly and simply. But if the child is still small, then it must be done in the form of a game.
Well, following this simple guide, you may soon come with your child to understanding and harmony. And isn’t that most important?