About good relationships with family and friends is a dream of many, but not all can boast. So very often it turns out that growing up, kids dream of independence, and parents about opportunities as often as possible to see his older children.
Psychologists say that all this is happening because of conflicts that happened in childhood.
“When a child grows up with his parents and is unable to get what it wants – an emotional contact, hugs, words of love, when it does not receive from them understanding and approval, then adult children just can’t give your parents something that they did not receive in childhood”, explained the psychologist Oksana Sashenka.
Establish relationships with parents does not work, if you already have an adult child still depends on his parents.
But children can maintain a good relationship with your parents, if you will just give them a little time. Another good way to maintain cordial relations – the presence of interests and Hobbies of the parents.
“Where’s mom has a realization, a hobby, a profession and friends – there will not be a strong trauma from the separation of their adult children,” – says the psychologist.